liefde kan zoet zijn, zegt men!

liefde kan zoet zijn als twee of meer mensen dit begrip samen oprecht beleven.

Wat is liefde? Liefde is een gevoel, iets wat recht uit je hart komt. Dat is wat

iedereen weet, maar is er ook iemand die letterlijk kan uitleggen wat liefde is?

Er zijn verschillende soorten liefde. Liefde die je voelt voor iemand, je partner.

Liefde die je voelt voor je familie, liefde die je voelt voor je vrienden en liefde

die je kan voelen voor bijvoorbeeld je werk.

Liefde kan daarnaast ook nog in meer of mindere mate aanwezig zijn. Je voelt weinig

liefde of veel liefde, sommige lopen over van liefde voor iemand. Maar hoe laat je

iemand blijken dat je die liefde voelt. "Ik hou van jou" word te pas en te onpas

gezegd, zou zomaar ongeloofwaardig kunnen overkomen, en ik vind je lief is dan weer

geen uiting van liefde.



De liefde die je voelt voor je familie is weer anders dan de liefde die je voelt

voor vrienden, dus wanneer weet je nou wat voor liefde je voelt? Wanneer voel je

vriendschappelijke liefde en wanneer voel je romantische liefde?

Liefde maakt je sterk maar ook heel erg kwetsbaar, je doet dingen voor iemand die je

nooit zou doen, je geeft jezelf als het ware bloot aan iemand, je schild valt weg.

Je geeft als het ware een stukje controle uit handen wat je normaal zelf zou willen

hebben, je doet er niets aan, het overkomt je.

liefde

if a man wants you!

The following list was sent to me by a female friend I met on BlackPlanet with instructions to pass it along in email. I tend not to pass things along in email, but I thought the list was so good I did need to share it. It's probably from a book I haven't read, but it strikes me as advice our mothers and fathers have given us as girls, or knowledge smart women tend to know but the wisdom we often ignore when infatuation chemicals are firing in our brains. This list of rules or this advice primarily applies to dating, but a few on here could be used during marriage as well like "don't tell a man everything, he'll use it against you later." I've had personal experience with that one. so this is for all off my GIRLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

love, CHANNE


If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve to be treated then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant. Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man! Nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to complete you ... A relationship consists of two whole individuals...look for someone complementary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him, he takes you for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar, but get to know others.